May 4, 1938 - April 25, 2008
For the last forty years, Monroe Ballard, Sr. shared his life with others from a heart of compassion, care, and daily sacrifice. Focusing on the underserved in the Memphis community, Mr. Ballard served literally thousands of his neighbors year after year. Early last Friday morning, Mr. Ballard lost his battle with cancer.
Along with his wife, Dr. JoeAnn Ballard, Monroe began overseeing the Neighborhood Christian Centers, Inc. (NCC) in 1978. Plans are in motion for a huge celebration this fall to recognize the 30 year anniversary of NCC, in particular the tireless efforts of the Ballards as they have remained at the helm of the organization. For thirty years, NCC has served the Memphis community, meeting the practical and spiritual needs of approximately 100,000 people each year. Plans are still in motion for the celebratory event; however, the event will now take on new meaning as this one-of-a-kind man is remembered.
“The time is long overdue to honor my parents for the work they’ve done for God in the Memphis community,” says NCC Administrative Director Ephie Ballard-Johnson who is also the Ballards’ oldest child. “My siblings and I grew up with other children in our home whom my parents treated like their own. While they weren’t our biological siblings, because of the way we saw my parents treat them with so much love; they became our brothers and sisters and still are to this day. All of the foster children are doing well and along with countless others touched by my parents, through their work at NCC, we are committed to serving the community today, continuing the legacy my parents started.”
Monroe was born on May 4, 1938 in Pocahuntas, Mississippi, to Seth and Lucille Ballard. He was one of eight siblings. He developed a compassionate heart by watching how his parents served others in the community and also developed a gift for teaching skills to others through his parents’ encouragement of his curious mind. He would use both of these attributes for the rest of his life.
After attending Piney Woods Country Life School Monroe joined the military and later earned a Bachelor’s degree from Alcorn State University. He then moved to Memphis in 1961 to begin his teaching career and later earned a Master’s degree in Special Education and Rehabilitation from the University of Memphis. Ballard was a devoted educator of inner-city children, teaching science at Douglas Elementary School for thirty years. His students remember him as a loving and innovative teacher who brought science to life through his unique approach. His effective approach was largely due to the fact that he was fascinated by the way things worked and passed on this fascination to his students.
His life’s work was with NCC, which began in 1978. He was still serving as the organization’s Director of Operations until his entrance to Baptist Hospital two weeks ago. The relational ministry approach of NCC actually began in the Ballard’s home. Starting in the 1960s as a young married couple, the Ballards brought disadvantaged children into their home and gave them hope, love and security while teaching them God’s way. Many of the young people who came into the loving home were Monroe’s students. Based in Memphis, NCC is modeled on the Ballards’ lifestyle of service, providing compassionate, Christ-centered ministry to the practical and spiritual needs of the city’s poor.
Ballard and the love of his life, JoeAnn Marshall married in 1966. In addition to his wife, Monroe is survived by four children, Ephie Ballard Johnson ( Rodney) , Linda Ballard Webster (Carlos), Monroe Ballard, Jr. (Janice) and Justin Blake Ballard, five grandchildren (Carmen Webster, Andre’ Johnson, Carlin Webster, Jonathan Johnson, and Carlton Webster), five remaining siblings, Seth Ballard, Jr. (Augusta – Deceased), Jannie Johnson (Lem), Samuel Ballard ( Florice), Mamie Crockett (Walter), Sylvester Ballard ( Evelyn), an aunt, Mamie Palmer Wiggins, the original set of foster children, Ester Britton, Ruby Bonds, Queen Knox, Mattie Neal, Mamie Benson, Arlene Buckley, Vera Dooley, Cynthia Thomas, Gladys Generette, Eric Wells, Lee Stewart, Rita Austin, Kim Reddick, Kimathi D. Street, 75 additional foster children, a number of nieces and nephews and a host of foster grandchildren who affectionately called him “Paw-paw.”
Memorial donations may be made to Neighborhood Christian Centers, Inc. at 785 Jackson Ave., Memphis, TN 38107 or to the building fund at Friendship Nazarene Church, at 775 N Parkway, Memphis, TN 38105, a project Ballard was overseeing.
Read some of the kind words Mr. Ballard's former students and foster children had to say.
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Darlene Price Memphis, TN (Douglass 1972)
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.Eula Jones (Memphis (Douglass 1974))
I had the wonderful priviledge of seeing and speaking to Mr. Ballard 6 days prior to his passing. It had been many years since our paths had crossed. We reminised on the good old days at Douglass Elementary as he was my 6th grade teacher and he also considered me as one of his foster children. He was indeed an extraodinary man that demonstated love and compassion to everyone he came in contact with. I'm greatful for the opportunity of knowing him. May God comfort you Mrs. Ballard and your family and give you peace. He will truly be missed.
Wanda Starks (Memphis, TN)
Mr. Ballard you were a great teacher at Douglass Elementary. Your style of teaching was very unique because of your inclusion of Jesus and admonishments to stay clear of foolishness. It may not have detered my behavior back then (late 80's), but over the span of time those words have proven golden and my life has been exceptionally blessed.
Cher Eddington-Judie (Frisco, TX)
Mr. Ballard impacted my life very deeply. He was my 6th grade teacher at Douglass Elementary and the best teacher I ever had. I was unsure about being in his class at first but God knew I needed to be in his presence. He showed us scientific experiments no other teachers bothered to. He had computers set up in his class for us with math programs that gave me an extra push in math. Because he made me feel important and confident I scored on 10th grade level on our state wide test that year. I achieved so much in just that year alone no other year of school compared. He truly cared about us and he's the one teacher I will never forget. Because of him I felt brilliant. My condolences to the Ballard family. You are definitely in my prayers.
Quarean Gray (Atlanta, GA)
"Mr. Ballard was truly a model teacher at Douglass Elem.
He was my 6th grade science teacher. A man of God with a steadfast spirit. Mrs. Ballard, my prayers are with you and your family.
I am now a teacher also, and working toward my vice-principal certification. A very special thanks to Mr. Ballard model of an excellent teacher.
I love you both dearly.Joyce M. Threat-Parker (Ft. Washington, MD)
Mr. Ballard was such a wonderful person. His influence on me as my 6 th grade science teacher at Douglass Elementary was the best experience that I ever had dealing with science. As an adult going through school, everything that he taught me comes back. Now, through the Neighborhood Christian center your family reached down and helped my Daughter. You all are the best. There are so many memories of Mr. Ballard that so many people have, but all are of a great man. I will never forget the tall statue of a man, that has a heart just a tall. A heart with room for everyone. Love ya Family. Keep on striving.Mardrey Wade (Memphis, TN)
"Mr. Ballard was verrrry special to me since I've known him. My sister and I used to visit him at Douglass Elementary every summer since sixth grade just to talk to him. He would drop whatever he was doing to do so. He helped our family during Christmas time with food. He helped me to get into college by actually completing the student aid info, taking me there, and dropping me off promising to come back and get me. Of course, when times were tough for me, I wanted to come home. He talked my Mom into making me stay there saying I would be all right. Now I am one course away from my Masters. Each time I saw Mr. Ballard, I thanked him. And thank you Ms. Ballard for being there for him to help us all. He'll be sorely missed by so many. And you stay the strong woman I've always known you to be Ms. Ballard. I know this is a tough time for you, but weeping only endures for a night because joy cometh in the morning.Dorcas Holmes (formerly Smith) (Harrisburg, PA)
To the family, may God give you the strength to carry on and to continue what Mr. Ballard started so many years ago, always helping people. He was a great man and will not ever be forgotten. Mr. Ballard was my sixth grade teacher at Douglass Elementary and he was always teaching and helping people.Rita Wilhte Mabry (Memphis, TN)
Mr. Ballard you will be greatly missed.
Our prayers are with the Ballard Family.Your Students From Douglass Elem.
Shelly R. Moses- Wilson, Pamela A. Moses, Cherie L. Moses-Denton
"We were truly saddened to hear of Mr. Ballard's Homegoing. We know that he is in a better place. He taught all of us at Douglass Elementary School in the 1900's!
May he rest in peace for all eternity.
Marvin Williams, Marcia Williams, & Aldrin Williams
Music, when soft voices die
Music, when soft voices die,
Vibrates in the memory—
Odours, when sweet violets sicken,
Live within the sense they quicken.
Rose leaves, when the rose is dead,
Are heaped for the belovèd's bed;
And so thy thoughts, when thou art gone,
Love itself shall slumber on.
By Percy Bysshe Shelley
The Poetry FoundationShelia Price-Mitchell (Douglass 1975)
When I heard about his death a thought about the warm memory of him and Rico Polk. It puts a smile in my heart remembering the time Rico and I met Monroe at our house to pick up the car that NCC gave Rico through your college program. Monroe was always teaching Rico about everything especially about driving the car (since he had never driven before). One day Monroe was going to back it out of the driveway but Rico insisted he could do it. Monroe let him and he proceeded in knocking off the side mirror. Monroe had to get duct tape to hold it on but he kept right on talking and teaching. I respected Monroe so much! He chose to dress in a uniform doing all kinds of repair work, maintenance and anything else that needed to be done. From what I obserbed he was a man with a serving spirit who humbly did the work the Lord had for him to do. What higher things could you say about someone. I feel blessed to have known him......
Karen Andrews
Dear Joe Ann, Ephie, and the great staff at the Neighborhood Christian Center:
I want to thank you so very much for being with me and my family during Ernest's funeral. I know the kind of stress you were under with Monroe's imminent death. You are a friend, and it is my honor and pleasure to support you and your ministry. Please take care of yourself as I am trying to do the same. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers may God protect and guide you.
Jane